Dragged myself out of the house to go to work.
The MRT train was unusually empty. Looks like all the smart pple has decided to take e day off. I should do the same. But i wanted to better utilise my 15 (pathetic) days of annual leave.
Work was unusually slow and painful. Good news is slowly and painfully i finished one project.
So anyhow, we were on the topic of cheats and lies. I was inspired to blog because i felt unusually infuriated upn hearing Tuptup's friend's stories. Let call him Eeyore, his ex, Tigger and the other guy Piglet. So basically Tigger got together with Piglet while he was with Eeyore. Eeyore was devastaed naturally, but Tigger didnt give a dam and decided to rub salt in the wound by posting many many chummy photos of her and Piglet very shortly after she dumped Eeyore. Of course, shortly is a matter of perspective. Well in this case it was less than a month.
The question was " why didnt Tigger feel any sense of remorse for cheating"
I had the same question some time ago. And i guess i found my answer somehow because i have cheated before too.
Who do we love most in this world?? --> Me, myself and I
So who cares blah blah blah is upset. As long as I am happy, that's what matters. Plus he/she can just move on and find someone else. selfish selfish aint it
Honestly, i am perfectly fine with cheating. Whatever reasons u may give. Well but i guess the least we should do is to minimise the damage. No need to flaunt it on facebook. Eeyore is after all, an animal with feeling albeit a little stone at times. Plus, no one is going to go " Wow what a sweet photo and couple. They will just go..Oh so that's the bitch/bastard or that's the third party" But i guess in a way it's good for Eeyore. It's like giving him the ultimatum. Kill all the lingering feelings. Easier to move on.
So to those who have cheated. (me including), DON'T look back anymore. U just have to believe the pastuer is greener on the other side. (even if it's not.hopefully it is)
To those who have had been cheated on. What's love without the pain. He/She isnt better than u. ur used-to-be other half is happier with that someone else and can't appreciate what u have got. U're better off this way.
so my qn is : which is worse? Cheating on someone or coming between someone.
By the way, yea i have cheated..
sadly..not on someone...but on...my first job.
HAHAHHA
On a lighter note, some CNY pics!
Visting time!
Poohies had tweety for their reunion dinner. Bbq bird :)
Mini hongbao for poohies
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